en
a doctor and his patient. The accusations that just
lately have been showered on the nurses, they deserve,
it seems to me, no more than any other class of
young women who share our common human nature.
The blame rests with those who select the nurse — first
the matron of the hospital or institution, and then the
person who chooses her for the individual case.
The commonest of our national faults, and one which
affects all our health regulations, is surely that we
sanction the obvious causes of a situation, and then are
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surprised and grumble at their inevitable consequences.
It is not so much a question of morality as of mere
worldly common-sense and expediency. The laws which
should regulate such a new departure are not yet formed —
nursing, according to our modern ideas, being scarcely a
quarter of a century old. As long as the world lasts and
women are women, give them certain circumstances and
a sufficient temptation, and nothing will keep them
straight. Some women, too, take to nursing because
early trouble has made other openings difficult for them.
Under those circumstances we meet the most dangerous
type of woman that exists ; the world has turned against
her, and thereby caused her to become hard and bad, and
the enemy of society — the type that crushes, by all
the means in her power, any other woman who con-
sciously or unconsciously crosses the path of her conquest.
Few people seem to consider that the training of a nurse
is more hardening, and more likely to unsex a woman,
than the training of an actress. At any rate, it is im-
possible to go through it without becoming very much
better or very much worse than the ordinary woman. In
France they understand human nature better than we
do, and would never dream of allowing our system of
nursing. Nurses in Paris are, I believe, most difficult to
get. We want more regulations and more judicious
assistance from public opinion. The French want an
increased staff of nurses who are well conducted and not
too young, to supplement the devoted, high-minded, deeply
religious class of women who can alone join the Sister-
hoods, as they apparently are insufficient in number.
Time, the greatest adjuster of all human difficulties, will
settle these matters. What concerns us is that no turn
of fortune's wheel should crush and injure ourselves or
those belonging to us; and what matters now is that
ordinary knowledge and common- sense on the subject of
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health should be brought to bear by every woman
responsible in any way for the well-being of others, and
especially of the young. Public opinion, I am glad to
say, does not forgive a mother's neglect of her children's
physical condition ; and the condemnation is severe when
a boy, after all his work and passing his hard examina-
tions, is plucked in the medical examination for some
slight physical defect — it may be nothing worse than
neglected corns or a crooked toe — which with ordinary
care in childhood or a slight operation might have been
entirely cured. Is it stinginess, or is it idleness, or is it
ignorance, or is it mere selfishness and a dislike to
acknowledge delicacy in their own children, or a half-
conscientious repudiation of responsibility and a blind
trust in Providence, that makes so many parents allow
life-long misery and suffering to come upon their children
just for the want of
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a doctor and his patient. The accusations that just
lately have been showered on the nurses, they deserve,
it seems to me, no more than any other class of
young women who share our common human nature.
The blame rests with those who select the nurse — first
the matron of the hospital or institution, and then the
person who chooses her for the individual case.
The commonest of our national faults, and one which
affects all our health regulations, is surely that we
sanction the obvious causes of a situation, and then are
HEALTH 301
surprised and grumble at their inevitable consequences.
It is not so much a question of morality as of mere
worldly common-sense and expediency. The laws which
should regulate such a new departure are not yet formed —
nursing, according to our modern ideas, being scarcely a
quarter of a century old. As long as the world lasts and
women are women, give them certain circumstances and
a sufficient temptation, and nothing will keep them
straight. Some women, too, take to nursing because
early trouble has made other openings difficult for them.
Under those circumstances we meet the most dangerous
type of woman that exists ; the world has turned against
her, and thereby caused her to become hard and bad, and
the enemy of society — the type that crushes, by all
the means in her power, any other woman who con-
sciously or unconsciously crosses the path of her conquest.
Few people seem to consider that the training of a nurse
is more hardening, and more likely to unsex a woman,
than the training of an actress. At any rate, it is im-
possible to go through it without becoming very much
better or very much worse than the ordinary woman. In
France they understand human nature better than we
do, and would never dream of allowing our system of
nursing. Nurses in Paris are, I believe, most difficult to
get. We want more regulations and more judicious
assistance from public opinion. The French want an
increased staff of nurses who are well conducted and not
too young, to supplement the devoted, high-minded, deeply
religious class of women who can alone join the Sister-
hoods, as they apparently are insufficient in number.
Time, the greatest adjuster of all human difficulties, will
settle these matters. What concerns us is that no turn
of fortune's wheel should crush and injure ourselves or
those belonging to us; and what matters now is that
ordinary knowledge and common- sense on the subject of
302 POT-POURRI FROM A SURREY GARDEN
health should be brought to bear by every woman
responsible in any way for the well-being of others, and
especially of the young. Public opinion, I am glad to
say, does not forgive a mother's neglect of her children's
physical condition ; and the condemnation is severe when
a boy, after all his work and passing his hard examina-
tions, is plucked in the medical examination for some
slight physical defect — it may be nothing worse than
neglected corns or a crooked toe — which with ordinary
care in childhood or a slight operation might have been
entirely cured. Is it stinginess, or is it idleness, or is it
ignorance, or is it mere selfishness and a dislike to
acknowledge delicacy in their own children, or a half-
conscientious repudiation of responsibility and a blind
trust in Providence, that makes so many parents allow
life-long misery and suffering to come upon their children
just for the want of