general well-being of the establishment, then the oneness
of married life cannot possibly be carried on without a
certain sacrifice of what is best for the growing-up
children. But, again, in the evening of life, when friends
gradually fall away, and we become rather a duty and
perhaps even a slight burden to our children and
relations, who have their own lives to attend to, I
consider that residing in the suburbs solves, once more,
a great many of the difficulties of our complicated family
existence. Our children can easily visit us, and, if we
are not too old, we can so well go to London for duty or
pleasure, and in this way see, and hear, and learn all that
is going on. If all this is true, as I think it is, we are
saved, without actually living in London, from the
reproach that, being buried in the country, we let our-
selves go, and grow old prematurely. To be an easy
distance from town, though saying this may seem rather
a drop from the sublime to the ridiculous, certainly helps
us to cultivate the enjoyment of Nature, and, at the
same time, gives us the opportunity, if we have the
power in however slight a degree, of acquiring knowledge
for its own sake without regard to its practical applica-
tion. Surely these are the only two perfect sources of
human happiness? I do not say this thoughtlessly.
Love, in all its forms, gives a far intenser happiness, but
even in its purest form — parental love — it is accompanied
by anxiety and doubt. It begins with a kind of animal
enjoyment, and ends in the practising of continual self-
denial.
Much as I dislike leaving my garden, yesterday I
obeyed the summons of my oldest friend to spend the
day in London with her ; and certainly it turned out an
example of what I have been saying — so much so, that
I yield to the temptation of giving a slight account of it.
We spent our time in visiting Burlington House, and I
A DAY IN LONDON 291
will tell you what struck us most as we wandered
through the rooms there, in the way we used to do at the
old Academy in Trafalgar Square, when we were young
and enthusiastic. First, I took my friend to the work that I
admired most, which, I believe, will no more die in the gene-
rations to come than that of either Eaphael or Benvenuto
Cellini has died, though it will be more or less admired ac-
cording to the fashion of the day. Mr. Gilbert, the sculp-
tor, is in my opinion one of the greatest geniuses we have
amongst us just now, and his exhibited work in 1896 shows
with peculiar force the comprehensiveness of his talent.
Is not the stretch between the massive, splendid portrait-
bust of Professor Owen, and the exquisitely finished, subtle,
little full-length figure of St. George, all that the Colossus
of Ehodes could boast — a foot on either shore ? With the
assertiveness of the true artist he must have insisted on the
hiding of the hideous colour on the walls, and hung a piece
of yellow-brown drapery, which harmonises splendidly
with his plaster cast. We crossed the room to look at the
least remarkable work of the three, perhaps, artistically
speaking ; and yet how the bust of Sir George Grove
stands out and lives, and almost breathes, compared with
the cold dead heads that surround it ! It has not the
colour of life nor the vulgar realism of waxwork, but the
plain chalk cast is a man of flesh and blood, rugged and
strong.
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general well-being of the establishment, then the oneness
of married life cannot possibly be carried on without a
certain sacrifice of what is best for the growing-up
children. But, again, in the evening of life, when friends
gradually fall away, and we become rather a duty and
perhaps even a slight burden to our children and
relations, who have their own lives to attend to, I
consider that residing in the suburbs solves, once more,
a great many of the difficulties of our complicated family
existence. Our children can easily visit us, and, if we
are not too old, we can so well go to London for duty or
pleasure, and in this way see, and hear, and learn all that
is going on. If all this is true, as I think it is, we are
saved, without actually living in London, from the
reproach that, being buried in the country, we let our-
selves go, and grow old prematurely. To be an easy
distance from town, though saying this may seem rather
a drop from the sublime to the ridiculous, certainly helps
us to cultivate the enjoyment of Nature, and, at the
same time, gives us the opportunity, if we have the
power in however slight a degree, of acquiring knowledge
for its own sake without regard to its practical applica-
tion. Surely these are the only two perfect sources of
human happiness? I do not say this thoughtlessly.
Love, in all its forms, gives a far intenser happiness, but
even in its purest form — parental love — it is accompanied
by anxiety and doubt. It begins with a kind of animal
enjoyment, and ends in the practising of continual self-
denial.
Much as I dislike leaving my garden, yesterday I
obeyed the summons of my oldest friend to spend the
day in London with her ; and certainly it turned out an
example of what I have been saying — so much so, that
I yield to the temptation of giving a slight account of it.
We spent our time in visiting Burlington House, and I
A DAY IN LONDON 291
will tell you what struck us most as we wandered
through the rooms there, in the way we used to do at the
old Academy in Trafalgar Square, when we were young
and enthusiastic. First, I took my friend to the work that I
admired most, which, I believe, will no more die in the gene-
rations to come than that of either Eaphael or Benvenuto
Cellini has died, though it will be more or less admired ac-
cording to the fashion of the day. Mr. Gilbert, the sculp-
tor, is in my opinion one of the greatest geniuses we have
amongst us just now, and his exhibited work in 1896 shows
with peculiar force the comprehensiveness of his talent.
Is not the stretch between the massive, splendid portrait-
bust of Professor Owen, and the exquisitely finished, subtle,
little full-length figure of St. George, all that the Colossus
of Ehodes could boast — a foot on either shore ? With the
assertiveness of the true artist he must have insisted on the
hiding of the hideous colour on the walls, and hung a piece
of yellow-brown drapery, which harmonises splendidly
with his plaster cast. We crossed the room to look at the
least remarkable work of the three, perhaps, artistically
speaking ; and yet how the bust of Sir George Grove
stands out and lives, and almost breathes, compared with
the cold dead heads that surround it ! It has not the
colour of life nor the vulgar realism of waxwork, but the
plain chalk cast is a man of flesh and blood, rugged and
strong.