Teachers of the kindergarten insist on simple lunches,
because the root of the kindergarten principle is the best
good of the child and its three-fold development — physi-
cal, intellectual and spiritual ; and thus the principle is
recognized that the physical stands first in importance.
In large cities where noon-day lunches are supplied to
school children, even if the most hygienic food is not
always served, the method insures regularity and security
from outside temptation — two good points gained.
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CHAPTER XVI.
SOCIAL REQUIREMENTS.
The question arises is it not possible to be popular in
social life and not feel compelled to treat or be treated to
a glass of wine, a cup of tea or chocolate, a plate of cake
or dainty sweets. Can we not entertain without unwit-
tingly injuring our friends by over solicitude with regard
to feeding them at irregular hours.
The time was when " to get something good to eat *'
seemed to be the main object of afternoon and evening
visits. But none of us would like to admit that good
eating is the principal attraction and highest inducement
our friends can offer us by way of entertainment.
We are social beings, and seek companionship with
those upon our plane of thought. Hence the five o'clock
teas, suppers and lunch parties in our homes and so prev-
alent among college girls.
When we consider for a moment the extent and mag-
nitude of social functions, and modern customs, we almost
believe that eating and preparing something to be eaten
is the grand desideratum of life. But do these customs
in any sense pay anybody except the caterers and the
doctors. They demand an enormous amount of extra
labor and entail heavy expense, often upon those who
can ill afford it, by way of dress and decoration, in addi-
tion to the food prepared. Among the rich the expenses
204 THE FAT OF THE LAND.
attending social requirements are of little consequence.
But the financial expense is by no means the largest item to
be considered. The waste of nerve energy, intellectual
power and vital force, are among the chief evils attending
this artificial life.
An essential element either preceding or following a
certain class of evening entertainments, is a bountiful
supper, more or less elaborate according to circumstances.
After eating the customary three meals a day, it seems
very unwise to semi-occasionally, impose upon the diges-
tive organs another meal composed largely of indiges-
tibles, that the helpless stomach receives and patiently
tries to properly apportion. Had this much abused
organ the power of photographing the commotion caused
by a deluge of hot tea or coifee, followed or preceded by
frozen puddings, creams and ices of various kinds, the
illustration might prove of greater value than all previous
physiological instruction.
Add to these occasional dissipations, the magnificent
entertainments of the select few and the social life of the
lesser lights that fl.ytter around them, imitating as far as
means will permit and we have before our mental vision
the grand pageantry of conventional artificial life I To
move in ** society" we often fail to represent ourselves,
but seem transformed into something that demands a
sacrifice of our true selfhood, that we may for a brief
time become a part of the attractions that now and then
almost eclipse the splendor and luxury of by-gone ages.
Woman is largely the creator of social custom and she
it is that helps to fashion and sustain it, by introducing
innovations and taxing her powers to invent something
new and startling in the social world. Should she turn
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AI-modernized reading of the original text
Teachers of the kindergarten insist on simple lunches, because the root of the kindergarten principle is the best good of the child and its three-fold development — physical, intellectual and spiritual ; and thus the principle is recognized that the physical stands first in importance. In large cities where noon-day lunches are supplied to school children, even if the most hygienic food is not always served, the method insures regularity and security from outside temptation — two good points gained.
CHAPTER XVI.
The question arises is it not possible to be popular in social life and not feel compelled to treat or be treated to a glass of wine, a cup of tea or chocolate, a plate of cake or dainty sweets. Can we not entertain without unwittingly injuring our friends by over solicitude with regard to feeding them at irregular hours.
The time was when " to get something good to eat *' seemed to be the main object of afternoon and evening visits. But none of us would like to admit that good eating is the principal attraction and highest inducement our friends can offer us by way of entertainment.
We are social beings, and seek companionship with those upon our plane of thought. Hence the five o'clock teas, suppers and lunch parties in our homes and so prevalent among college girls.
When we consider for a moment the extent and magnitude of social functions, and modern customs, we almost believe that eating and preparing something to be eaten is the grand desideratum of life. But do these customs in any sense pay anybody except the caterers and the doctors. They demand an enormous amount of extra labor and entail heavy expense, often upon those who can ill afford it, by way of dress and decoration, in addition to the food prepared. Among the rich the expenses
attending social requirements are of little consequence. But the financial expense is by no means the largest item to be considered. The waste of nerve energy, intellectual power and vital force, are among the chief evils attending this artificial life.
An essential element either preceding or following a certain class of evening entertainments, is a bountiful supper, more or less elaborate according to circumstances. After eating the customary three meals a day, it seems very unwise to semi-occasionally, impose upon the digestive organs another meal composed largely of indigestibles, that the helpless stomach receives and patiently tries to properly apportion. Had this much abused organ the power of photographing the commotion caused by a deluge of hot tea or coifee, followed or preceded by frozen puddings, creams and ices of various kinds, the illustration might prove of greater value than all previous physiological instruction.
Add to these occasional dissipations, the magnificent entertainments of the select few and the social life of the lesser lights that fl.ytter around them, imitating as far as means will permit and we have before our mental vision the grand pageantry of conventional artificial life I To move in ** society" we often fail to represent ourselves, but seem transformed into something that demands a sacrifice of our true selfhood, that we may for a brief time become a part of the attractions that now and then almost eclipse the splendor and luxury of by-gone ages. Woman is largely the creator of social custom and she it is that helps to fashion and sustain it, by introducing innovations and taxing her powers to invent something new and startling in the social world. Should she turn