bers of the family those things which they should do them-
selves, comes to be regarded as a useful piece of
machinery, suited to minister to their wants, bat she is not
regarded with one whit more of love or reverence, rather
the reverse. By and by, when the mother is worn out in
body and spirit, when the child, grown older, feels no need
of her as its slave, it finds other more attractive playmates
and companions.
The mother has necessarily far more labor, care, and anx-
iety than any other member of the household. She is
continually occupied, and her work seems to have no end.
Neither husband nor children will love her the more for
sacrificing herself wholly to them, as many a sad, weary
mother has learned to her cost. Let her be just to herself.
Not that she should make slaves of the children any more
than they should make a slave of her. Bnt children like to
be useful, like to feel that they are a real help to older per-
sons, and if a little praise and perhaps, too, a little money
is given them, they will learn to enjoy the pleasure of help-
ing mother and of earning something for themselves, and
early taught the dignity of labor as well as save their
mother a little time to keep herself in advance of them in
study and thought, in general information, and in spiritual
growth, bo as to be always reverenced as their intellectual
and spiritual guide and friend and counsellor.
It has been truly said by Miss Sewell, author of an excel-
lent work on education, that "Unselfish mothers make selfish
children." This may seem startling, but the truth is, that
the mother who is continually giving up her own time,
money, strength, and pleasure for the gratification of her
children teaches them to expect it always. They learn to
be importunate in their demands, and to expect more and
more. If the mother wears an old dress that her daughter
may have a new one, if she work that her daughter may
play, she is helping to make her vain, selfish, and ignorant.
Mother's Cook Book. 287
and very likely she will be ungrateful and disrespectful, and
this is equally true of the husband, and other members of
the family. Unselfish wives make selfish husbands.
PACKING AWAY FURS.
All furs should be well switched and beaten lightly, free
from dust and loose hairs, well wrapped in newspaper, with
bits of camphor laid about them and in them, and put away
in a cool dark place. If a cedar closet, or chest is to be
had, laid into that. In lieu of that new cedar chips
may be scattered about. It is never well to delay packing
furs away until quite late in the season, for the moth will
early commence depredations. In packing them they should
not be rolled so tightly as to be crushed and damaged.
COURAGE.
One may possess physical courage, so that in times of
danger, a railroad accident, a steamboat collision or a run-
away horse, the heart will not be daunted or the cheek
■ paled, while on the other hand, one may be morally brave,
, not afraid to speak a word for the right in season, though
unwelcome, to perform a disagreeable duty unflinchingly or
to refuse to do a wrong act, and yet be a physical coward,
trembling and terrified in a thunder-storm, timid in the
dark, and even scream at the sight of a mouse. Courage,
both moral and physical, is one of the finest attributes of
character, and both can be cultivated and gained if desired
and sought after. Some girls think it interesting and at-
tractive to be terrified at insects, and will shriek with fright
if they happen to be chased a few rods by a flock of geese,
but they only excite laughter and do not gain the admira-
tion which a brave girl who tries to help herself would de-
serve.
Motheb'b Cook Book.
THE ART OF BEAUTY IN DRESS.
It is far easier to find fault with existing customs than to
devise and put in practice other and better ones.
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Presented as published in 1902. Historical recipes may not meet modern food-safety standards. Cook from the modern interpretation, not the original instructions.
AI-modernized reading of the original text
bers of the family those things which they should do themselves, comes to be regarded as a useful piece of machinery, suited to minister to their wants, bat she is not regarded with one whit more of love or reverence, rather the reverse. By and by, when the mother is worn out in body and spirit, when the child, grown older, feels no need of her as its slave, it finds other more attractive playmates and companions.
The mother has necessarily far more labor, care, and anxiety than any other member of the household. She is continually occupied, and her work seems to have no end. Neither husband nor children will love her the more for sacrificing herself wholly to them, as many a sad, weary mother has learned to her cost. Let her be just to herself. Not that she should make slaves of the children any more than they should make a slave of her. Bnt children like to be useful, like to feel that they are a real help to older persons, and if a little praise and perhaps, too, a little money is given them, they will learn to enjoy the pleasure of helping mother and of earning something for themselves, and early taught the dignity of labor as well as save their mother a little time to keep herself in advance of them in study and thought, in general information, and in spiritual growth, bo as to be always reverenced as their intellectual and spiritual guide and friend and counsellor.
It has been truly said by Miss Sewell, author of an excellent work on education, that "Unselfish mothers make selfish children." This may seem startling, but the truth is, that the mother who is continually giving up her own time, money, strength, and pleasure for the gratification of her children teaches them to expect it always. They learn to be importunate in their demands, and to expect more and more. If the mother wears an old dress that her daughter may have a new one, if she work that her daughter may play, she is helping to make her vain, selfish, and ignorant.
Mother's Cook Book. 287
and very likely she will be ungrateful and disrespectful, and this is equally true of the husband, and other members of the family. Unselfish wives make selfish husbands.
PACKING AWAY FURS.
All furs should be well switched and beaten lightly, free from dust and loose hairs, well wrapped in newspaper, with bits of camphor laid about them and in them, and put away in a cool dark place. If a cedar closet, or chest is to be had, laid into that. In lieu of that new cedar chips may be scattered about. It is never well to delay packing furs away until quite late in the season, for the moth will early commence depredations. In packing them they should not be rolled so tightly as to be crushed and damaged.
COURAGE.
One may possess physical courage, so that in times of danger, a railroad accident, a steamboat collision or a runaway horse, the heart will not be daunted or the cheek ■ paled, while on the other hand, one may be morally brave, , not afraid to speak a word for the right in season, though unwelcome, to perform a disagreeable duty unflinchingly or to refuse to do a wrong act, and yet be a physical coward, trembling and terrified in a thunder-storm, timid in the dark, and even scream at the sight of a mouse. Courage, both moral and physical, is one of the finest attributes of character, and both can be cultivated and gained if desired and sought after. Some girls think it interesting and attractive to be terrified at insects, and will shriek with fright if they happen to be chased a few rods by a flock of geese, but they only excite laughter and do not gain the admiration which a brave girl who tries to help herself would deserve.
Motheb'b Cook Book.
THE ART OF BEAUTY IN DRESS.
It is far easier to find fault with existing customs than to devise and put in practice other and better ones.